FAQs
Q. Who is the message hostess and what does she do?
A. The message hostess delivers notes at THP parties.
If you see someone at the party who you want to meet but you are a bit shy,
you write out a note (paper and pens are supplied), give the note to the message hostess,
and she delivers the note to the person you specify.
Q. How do the name tags with color dots work?
A. At THP parties members are encouraged to wear name tags with their first name
and one or more colored dots indicating who they want to meet that evening.
You get the name tags at the door.
ORANGE DOT - you want to meet women
BLUE DOT - you want to meet men
RED DOT - you want to meet couples
BLACK DOT - you want to meet crossdressers and transvestites
YELLOW DOT - you want to meet transsexuals and she/males
A GREEN DOT is a little different, as it means you are a part of a couple.
TWO GREEN DOTS mean you are a part of a couple and are looking to meet other couples.
Q. What is the difference between
crossdresssers/transvestites and transsexuals/she-males?
A. It's a matter of degree.
Crossdressers are men who like to dress as women sometimes
but live their lives mostly as men.
Transvestites are similar but usually have a female 'persona'.
Transsexuals were born male but have had gender assignment surgery
and live their lives as women. She-males also live their lives as women.
Q. If I join late in the September does my membership
run out at the end of the year?
A. No. THP memberships are always for a full year.
You always get 12 full months.